Anonymous said: can we PLEASE see pics of you???
There are plenty of other scantily clad women on the internet. I wouldn’t be doing the world a huge service if I were to add naked pictures of myself to the mix. The only picture of me that I’ll ever put on this blog (at least at this point in time) is my avatar :)
Anonymous said: what can you do when your bf cums way too soon and has some troubles with keeping his dick hard throughout the whole 'act'? it has become so frustrating tbh and i have no idea what to do to support him since he stated that it's because he always worries about satisfying me and that the upcoming exams are stressing him out.
It’s funny that I should get asked this question because my boyfriend and I recently had to work through this exact same problem.
He was never quite able to fully explain why he was having trouble, but from what I gathered it was because of general stress about school/work and concerns about being an adequate lover. How did we resolve this?
What I did: I basically just kept telling him that I loved him no matter what and that I was more interested in his amazing mind than how well he performed in the sack. I made sure I went slowly with everything we did, so as not to cause too much friction too quickly. I was also VERY persistent (probably annoyingly so) about making him talk about what was bothering him.
What he did: He worked A LOT on controlling his breathing. Controlled breathing can significantly help with these things. He was also very vocal with me about when he was getting close to orgasm — that way we could slow things down/take a break if necessary.
What we both did: We kept an open line of communication about sex. We talked about which positions worked and which ones didn’t. If we had sex and he came too early, we would talk about what was stressing him out.
We basically just kept at it. Now we have fantastic sex and he’s able to control when he orgasms. This goes to show that it is entirely possible to work through these things. You just have to be willing to trust each other and be patient. Being comfortable around your lover is crucial, as is them being comfortable around you.
Good luck! Hope y’all are able to work through this :)